Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Trying to Find my Rhythm Again! Focus Goals for April 22




It always amazes me how it only takes a one busy day for my house to fall apart and weeks to get back in the rhythm. I did make some headway last week, but I have a ways to go.  Still struggling to get things done around the house before doing the “other things.”  It is sad how I feel urgent to get things done for others but yet a back log of laundry seems to be OK to put off.  I would say that it is OK to put some household tasks on the back burner, for a short time that is. When it becomes the norm people start running out of socks and underwear! So I am still focusing this week on getting back into routine.

Updates:

Science Fair: Two of the three projects are complete.Nothng too exciting. In fact the boards and reports not very thorough, but no different than any other year and everyone seems to get an A. I really should put more expectations on the kids myself for these projects since they don't at school. It just seems like it falls in such a busy time of year for us. Of course when is not busy?

Chickens: They have hatched! It was an exciting weekend. They started to peck through on Friday and we discovered the 1st one Sat. morning. We left for a day of soccer and baseball and came home to several more. A couple hatched after we were home. Most of the remaining eggs hatched overnight Sat to Sun. The last two hatched while we were at soccer and baseball on Sunday. We candled them again after my Weds. Post and found that 4 were not alive anymore. So we were left with 17 eggs and ALL 17 hatched! Their cage now sits in the corner of my kitchen.

Weather: It’s SNOWING! I can’t help but enjoy the beautiful big snowflakes despite the fact that it is April 23. This is also why the chicks are in my kitchen and not the garage it’s too cold! There is sleet and snow in the forecast all day. So another day to send emails for cancelled soccer practice, what a crazy spring we are having. Crossing my fingers the baseball game is cancelled too and we will have 2 nights in a row at home!



  Meals:  We did have a couple “real” meals to finish off last week. I cheated and ordered pizza one night. I really need to dig out some of my old easy recipes for weeknight meals.  I have definitely lacked in meal planning lately.

Well no where to go during the day today, so if I get off the computer and make good use of my time,  there is a chance I may be back on schedule for laundry!

FOCUS Goals for week of April 22, 2013
New Goals, comments, and excuses are in purple below.

Goals for a Better Home
1. Personal Focus to better my relationship with God.
·         Start and end each day with prayer. Read two chapters in the Bible.   
·         Run if I can. (Does Running to get to a game, or leaving one game to get to the other count? I am in a sad state for exercise right now!)

2. Remove distractions at key times.
·         No computer 6:30-8:00am and 3:00-5:00pm   
·         No volunteering tasks until my family tasks are underway each day.   

3. Add something to give more of me to my family.
·         Take a minute when everyone gets home each night to see what is going on with them and what needs to get done. The end of the year is SOOO busy!
·         Feed my family better meals.
Goals for a Better House
1. Daily Check Points: Work harder on my Daily Check Points to avoid falling farther behind.
2. Weekly: Catch up on tasks and “to do list”.
Mon: Catch UP! Laundry! Turn in final t-shirt order for soccer teams, pickup game scores from the weekend. Clean out chicken incubator.
Tues: Catch UP! Clean out chicken cage, boy they make a mess fast. Post Soccer League game scores. Laundry! Soccer Email updates.
Weds: Catch up! Soccer Email Updates.
Thurs: Catch up! Pick up Team T-shirts hopefully??
Fri: Catch up! Soccer lineups for Fri & Sat.. Prep for the last CCD class. Almost summer despite the snow J
3. Monthly: Projects and deep cleaning still on hold until I get caught up.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

The Great Balancing Act, with Focus Goals April 16, 2013






Well it has been 3 weeks since I posted anything not even focus goals. You may be wondering what I have I been up to or if maybe I just gave up. I’d like to say I have been working so hard around the house that I haven’t had time to write. I have been busy, but it hasn’t been around the house. I seem to have the ability to make everything I do a part time job. Between volunteering for the soccer league, organizing our kid’s teams, church, school, and just transporting everyone where they need to be. I feel like I have been carrying 5 part time jobs at once.  As a result I have 2weeks worth of laundry piled in my living room. Some of which has been refolded who knows how many times because the kids have dug through to find something to wear. The entire house is in disorder which only hinders my progress of getting things done even more. Not to mention the extra things like Science Fair projects and trying to hatch 21 chicken eggs (which if we were smart we would’ve have made that a project). If anyone has hatched chickens before I’d take advice. We have been turning 3 times a day, at least most days, watching the temperature and candling them to check how they are doing. We are quickly approaching 21 days of incubation and when I candled them last week they all looked like something was in there to us. I am too afraid to throw out the iffy ones for fear there is a living chick inside. Google searches have warned against keeping the bad ones because the egg with explode at the end. So we are either going to have more chicks than we know what to do with or a MESS! Maybe after we lost our chickens to the food chain this winter should have just purchased them again at the farm store? I am crossing my fingers for 21 chicks, though it will be an adventure either way.

Anyway back to the point.

How do I balance it all? I don’t have the answer to that question. All I know is something is going to have to give, because right now it is my kids and husband that are suffering. For dinner last night half my family had cereal. Not oatmeal or cheerios but chocolate lucky charms. So that is why I am forcing myself to sit down 2 days late this week and get focused because if I don’t I am going to fall of the tight rope or explode along with the chicken eggs.

Below are my focus goals in simple version, I am still working on the "to do list". I am going to have to let go of the big picture and concentrate on the small things to help me catch up.

WISH ME LUCK With LIFE AND THE CHICKENS!
This is our breakfast nook with egg incubator


This is my dining room with laundry. No wonder we are not eating meals there is No where to eat!
FOCUS Goals for week of April 15, 2013
New Goals, comments, and excuses are in purple below.

Goals for a Better Home
1. Personal Focus to better my relationship with God.
·         Start and end each day with prayer. Read two chapters in the Bible.   
·         Run if I can.

2. Remove distractions at key times.
·         No computer 6:30-8:00am and 3:00-5:00pm   
·         No volunteering tasks until my family tasks are underway each day.   

3. Add something to give more of me to my family.
·         Take a minute when everyone gets home each night to see what is going on with them and what needs to get done. The end of the year is SOOO busy!
·         Feed my family better meals.
Goals for a Better House
1. Daily Check Points: Work harder on my Daily Check Points to avoid falling farther behind.
2. Weekly: Catch up on tasks and “to do list”.
3. Monthly: Cleaning and projects will have to wait until next week or maybe the week after.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

FOCUS Goals for week of March 25, 2013



FOCUS Goals for week of March 25, 2013

I am so glad I had the chance to read this book. I have learned so much about Mass, Faith, and have developed a greater appreciation for the Mass and church history. There were times I got chills and tears in my eyes. A wonderful book to read during Lent or anytime. It also left me more at peace with the book of Revelation. Our group was amazing at sharing thoughts, ideas, fears and giving encouragement to each other to continue to learn more. I am thankful for this book and those who took the time to read it along with me!
New Goals, comments, and excuses are in purple below.
Goals for a Better Home
1. Personal Focus to better my relationship with God.
Daily: Start and end each day with prayer. Read two chapters in the Bible. Serenity Prayer  
Weekly/Monthly: Read 1 Chapter in “Reasons to Believe”.  This is another Scott Hahn book I have had for awhile. We had our last study group last night, I was sad to be done with the book and the discussions. We are all talking about doing something again starting at the end of the school year.
Run 3 days. This week is packed in the evenings and days with Easter church and soccer stuff. So I am giving myself one less day of commitment here.

2. Remove distractions at key times.
Daily: No computer 6:30-8:00am and 3:00-5:00pm (after everyone is home)  
Weekly/Monthly: CUT BACK ON ELECTRONIC TIME!   

3. Add something to give more of me to my family.
Daily: Morning Blessing, Morning Prayer with kids is hard, I am determined to keep trying!
One on one conversation each evening for all.  Finish family Lent study.
Weekly:  Still working on household order and better meal planning.
Monthly: Take my husband on a date.  
Goals for a Better House
1. Daily Check Points: Weekly Plan Sheet. Still struggling through ups and downs.
2. Weekly & Monthly Tasks, Chores and To Do Lists: Weekly Plan Sheet & Monthly Cleaning Schedule. Behind on cleaning yet AGAIN!
3. Weekly/Monthly Project to Do List:  
Monday: Weekly: Figure out indoor soccer practice location AGAIN! prep for book study Monthly: none (DONE)
Tuesday: Weekly: Catch up on Monday’s tasks and chores. Soccer: review plans for new facility, weather reschedules for league, practice emails, register for end of season tournament. Figure out what everyone is wearing for Easter. Monthly: Chores
Weds: Weekly: Catch up on Tuesday’s tasks and chores HA HA!!! Schedule pictures and check up appointments for #5, Work on New Post.   Monthly: Chores
Thurs: Weekly: Shop for Easter, Soccer Facility Review Meeting Monthly: Chores
Fri: Weekly: Catch up from Mon, Tues, Weds and Thurs HA HA HA!!! Get ready for Easter Weekend. Monthly: Daily chores & catch up chores

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Focus Goals for March 18, 2013

Crazy Busy
 
In case you hadn't noticed my lack of score posting I was the crazy busy last week. Well I guess I can't go from chaos to peace in one week.

The kids and I were able to head out of town for part of spring break thus my late posting this week. Being out of town gets me off the hook for part of the week on house goals. Though I should be helping out more at my parents house, but instead I seem to revert to being their child again and not doing much.
 
New Goals, comments, and excuses are in purple below.

Goals for a Better Home

1. Personal Focus to better my relationship with God.
Daily: Start and end each day with prayer. Read two chapters in the Bible. Serenity Prayer
Weekly/Monthly: Read Part III Chapter 3 & 4 in “The Lamps Supper” and answer questions Run 4 days. I did better but still did not hit 4 days last week.

2. Remove distractions at key times.
Daily: No computer 6:30-8:00am and 3:00-5:00pm (after everyone is home)
Weekly/Monthly: CUT BACK ON ELECTRONIC TIME!

3. Add something to give more of me to my family.
Daily: Morning Blessing. Still working on incorporating this into our crazy mornings. One on one conversation each evening for all. Family Lent study.
Weekly: Better household order and meal planning. 
Monthly: Take my husband on a date.


Goals for a Better House

1. Daily Check Points: Weekly Plan Sheet.
2. Weekly & Monthly Tasks, Chores and To Do Lists: Weekly Plan Sheet & Monthly Cleaning Schedule.
3. Weekly/Monthly Project to Do List:

Monday: Weekly: Visit with family
Tuesday: Weekly: Visit with Family. Get ideas for my oldest daughters Birthday. 
Weds: Weekly: Visit with Family
Thurs: Weekly: Heading Home
Fri: Weekly:  Unpack and get ready for the weekend.